Changes…That is what life is all about. When you hit the 50-year-old mark, well changes start to accelerate. You feel a bit…well redundant, old, saggy, and left out for the recycling bin.
First, you go through the depths of menopause, your body gaining an instant 10-20 pounds, your face detailed by lines, your hair thinning, yet growing facial hair. Go figure. It is a time of self-hate for many of us. You can’t really figure out how you got here. How you got to be such a hag. Well, at least that is how you feel, or at least I have.
But changes don’t have to be all bad. There are some things we can do to reach beyond what our outer images are telling us, and remake ourselves into what we believe we can be, or we can just give up and complain about the changes. I am choosing to remake myself into the change that is birthing me.
Really, the only thing that is consistent in life is change. So mine as well go with the flow and see how we can make the best of it. This is not resigning mind you. It is accepting and then doing your best to integrate the change in your life and to learn what works at your age, and beyond, and what doesn’t.
I am not thirty anymore, I shouldn’t dress it because I feel like a fool. But then if your archetype is the fool, by all means, go for it. This is what I am exploring right now.
We each are born with an archetype that guides our lives within their cycles and seasons. You may be a mistress in your thirties and a Madonna in your fifties. your clothes, habitat, shape, and mindset change. What is so disconcerting to many of us, me included, is trying to figure out how to navigate the change that is before us. So that is my experiment from now on in this blog. Finding out about the archetypes that guide us, offering suggestions and visuals about lifestyle (food, fashion, homes, exercises, interiors) and inner work that those archetypes are guiding us to, and then hopefully together we can make a map.